You have broken up with your narcissistic spouse and you now want them back. You don’t want them to just come back, you want them crawling, begging and pleading with you in the most desperate, undignified way. How do you get a Narcissist to come crawling back into your house?
Although it may seem impossible, you can do it if you know how. This is a secret that you might not have known: Narcissists can break down when they see their ex-partner happy, or when they are ignored by their ex.
They hate their pasts for one. Victim Two, it is important to keep your partners happy.
If you ignore a narcissist they will go to great lengths for your attention as they cannot live without it.
How to make a Narcissist come Crawling Back!
You can post stunning photos on social media to make it seem like you are living the best life possible. You can also ignore the narcissist and not pay them any attention.
You can make narcissists come crawling back, even though they are stubborn and won’t let go of a relationship.
As if you didn’t notice you were dumped, you’ll be happier without them. Soon, the narcissist will be back and wondering why you are living your best life.
Here are some ways to make a narcissist return:
Narcissists hate seeing their victims happy. You were miserable together and the narcissist made sure you weren’t happy after you left.
Because they believed they had done enough to you and that you were no longer worth their time, the narcissist left you be.
You were useless to the narcissist. It’s going to frustrate the narcissist if you live your best life soon after being dumped by them. Here’s how it works…
Have a wild girls’ evening out on the town shortly after the breakup; if possible, take a vacation. You should take lots of photos of yourself having the time and looking amazing. Post the photos to social media with some men.
When he sees you, your ex will be furious and want to throw you off your high horse. Because you were so afraid, you barely managed to smile while you were together.
You’ve broken up and now you have a wide smile. And you’re with men! NOT!
The narcissist will see those photos and want to stop your happiness. They can only do this if they are back in your life. Expect your ex to knock.
You should ignore the Narcissists when they call.
You’ve now set the scene for your narcissist, and they will contact you. They will wait a few weeks to see the photo before they contact you. This is so they don’t seem too eager.
Don’t respond if they do. You will only make them madder if you ignore the narcissist. You are having the time and pleasure of your life. But you are keeping them away! You will be declared a narcissist.
They will come at you with guns blazing, but disguise it as love. They will return to what they are familiar with. Soon, the love bombing will begin.
They will start sending you flowers, gifts, invitations for dinner and any other promotional material. They will try to get you back to the peasant level.
Block the Narcissist from All Platforms
It’s now time to move this plan to the next stage. Since the narcissist reached out to you, it’s your turn.
This is something the narcissist does not want to acknowledge.
Block the narcissist from all platforms. Make sure they cannot reach you via email, social media, or phone.
Try to avoid contact at all costs. Because they aren’t able to access you anymore, the narcissist will be aware and panic attack. The narcissist may go insane and do whatever it takes to reach you.
They will appear at your home, your parent’s house, or your job. They’ll run around trying to reach you like a headless chicken. This will go on for several weeks. When you feel the time is right, you can give them a chance to contact you via phone. Their level of desperation and rage will surprise you once they get in touch with you.
Get started on your own.
The narcissist will want you to be a fearful, insecure person who thinks they have nothing to lose.
This is how you felt together. That’s what the narcissist wants you to feel. They will be tempted to drag you off your high horse as soon as they realize you have broken free of their chains.
You can start a 30-day challenge to get your body in shape and then post your progress on social media. Between that, you can post about personal growth, self-love, and spiritual development.
The narcissist will not like your positive outlook. They’ll have to invade your life to bring you back to their level.
Is it possible to get a narcissist back?
The best way to get the narcissist back is to clarify the ending of the relationship and start dating again. You will find that they are not interested in having anything to do with you after you have ended your relationship with the narcissist. In most cases, however, they will leave the door open for you if they need to.
It’s clear that the relationship is over
Let the narcissist, regardless of whether you were dumped by them or not, know that the relationship has ended.
They won’t be coming back to you, and they shouldn’t try to get back to you. Do not call them; they won’t return your calls. Instead, send them a text or an email. The narcissist will be aggrieved if you put a stamp on the relationship’s end.
It will appear to the narcissist that the shoe is on the opposite foot. Even if they have thrown you out, the sound of your final nail in the coffin will make it seem as if they are being dumped.
The narcissist may ask you if you intended to end the relationship. But they won’t let you.
These thoughts can drive a narcissist insane, and they will work to get you back to have the last laugh.
Restart dating
Once you have let the narcissist out, find a new partner. Make sure that they are at least a thousand times hotter than the narcissist. Take a lot of photos and upload them to social media.
Because they don’t want to block their exes, the narcissist will be able to see them. They want to monitor their lives and make sure they are not living in deplorable circumstances.
Your ex will be furious if you tell them you have a new partner. Soon, the narcissist will be back in your life.
Why would a Narcissist want you back?
Remind the narcissist that you are here to help them by reminding them what they’re missing and showing them that you have plenty of supply.
External validation is what the narcissist relies upon to thrive. They cannot love themselves because of deep-rooted insecurity. Therefore, they seek validation from outside sources.
You become a supply of supply for the narcissist once you start telling them how amazing they are. They won’t be able to resist you.
Remind the Narcissist What They Are Not Doing
Because they thought you were out of supply, the narcissist dismissed you.
By letting the narcissist know that there are more options, you can get them to crawl back. Love-bomb the narcissist to make them play their game.
Send your ex-partners emails and text messages telling them how much you love and miss them. You can tell how much you love and miss them because they are so amazing.
It’s okay to be blunt. Once the narcissist realizes the truth, they will return crawling.
How do You Get a Narcissist to Talk to You Again?
The narcissist can talk to you again if you accept responsibility for the breakup, and remove all obstacles that prevent them from reaching you.
Narcissists will take advantage of the opportunity to ruin your life once again. Using this strategy, you can expect them to return with open arms.
Let the Narcissist know that you accept responsibility
Narcissists love to see their victims beg. It gives them immense pleasure to feel they have control over someone.
Tell the narcissist that you are sorry for the breakup and that you accept responsibility. It’s easy to hook them by referring back to yourself as all they claimed you were.
Recognize that you are unable to live without them. The narcissist will love to hear your confessions again and again. You will beg the narcissist to stop calling you.
All Obstacles Be Removed
Did you put your ex-partner on the block after you split up? Maybe you felt threatened so you took out a restraining order against them.
This will anger the narcissist as they will be furious at you for abandoning you. However, they still need to know that they have access to you at all times. You don’t want an angry narcissist following you around.
Slowly, you can get things moving again by telling them that you have removed all restrictions and that they have full access to you. Start by liking their posts on social media.
If this doesn’t work, you can give the narcissist another missed call. Send the narcissist an email or text message letting him know that you have gotten a new partner and that the restraining orders have been lifted.
You might even consider claiming that your new partner is controlling you because you are so vulnerable after a breakup. They were the ones who made you want to put a halt to your relationship and obtain a restraining order.
Important to note that the narcissist won’t get back to your immediately. The narcissist will be smiling and rubbing their fingers in delight at you making contact. However, they will not want to make you suffer.
Although I don’t know how long they will make you wait, there will be delays in getting back to you. The narcissist wants your confidence that they are in complete control. They’ll be plotting how to make sure they take you apart once they return.
Last Thought
These methods will get the narcissist back to you. However, it is important to realize that if you try to get back with the narcissist you will end up in a warzone.
Even if you thought things were bad at first, they will only get worse, especially if the narcissist is the one you walked out on.
As we mentioned above, the narcissist will come back with a military-style strategy plan to eliminate you.
This is something you need to plan for. Are you ready for the upheaval that’s ahead? If you aren’t, it is time to abandon your plans to make the narcissist come back.