In truth, it took me a long to realize the fact that joy is not something found in physical objects. It might not be even something you can locate in hobbies or activities. There are specific things that bring you happiness. Naturally, you’ll be content whenever you can do what you are the most passionate about.
You may be content when you finally get the shoes you’ve been waiting for. But that’s not the type of happiness I’m talking about now. The kind of happiness I’m talking about is the kind that lasts, the kind that doesn’t leave you.
The kind of happiness you can find can only be found in the joy that can be experienced in a shared love relationship with another human being. Don’t confuse shared love with being in an intimate relationship. A lot of people get into relationships, but they feel unhappy about their own lives. No. The happiness I’m talking about is the kind of joy you experience when you’re in the perfect relationship and you’re in a good relationship with the person who is truly yours to spend the remainder of your life with.
Working to be Happy
Of course, you could always take every step to bring happiness into your life. This is the goal of almost everyone on this planet. You strive to do things that bring you joy. You strive to ensure your finances are sufficient to feed yourself. The food you eat makes it easier for you to be content. You can devote your time to your most loved activities and hobbies because gaining skills in these areas is what makes you happy. You do your best to achieve them.
Additionally, you will enjoy happiness when you are with family and friends. If there are individuals in your life who are important to you, then spend time with them to increase your connection. As a family member, you are sure that there are people in your life who always support you. Through their actions, they will bring happiness to your life too. Therefore you set out to continue to nurture and strengthen these relationships as you value these relationships with all your heart.
It’s important to understand that these relationships aren’t inherently invalid and neither is the joy you get from them. It’s just different to be happy when you’re lucky enough to find one who is devoted to you back. It’s an entirely different kind of satisfaction when you’re someone who invests only in your relationship and bond.
Finding the Right Person
There aren’t many people who will have the luck of success in finding the perfect individuals for them immediately. For most people, it’s likely to need multiple attempts as well as heartbreaks, mistakes, and failures before we can settle into the type of relationship that’s perfect for us. That’s okay.
The only thing you must know for certain is that love will always be worthwhile. When you are in the love of your life it will seem like your sorrow, heartache and dismay will disappear completely.
The reason why all the negative energy disappears from your life is due to the true happiness you experience when you’re with the perfect person. Naturally, when you fall in love with the perfect person, it’s going to be something you’ve never had before.
You can see the future of your life as you take a look at your partner’s. You can taste the future every time you make a kiss. It’s the kind of love that you’ve always wanted and would never have to sacrifice for. It’s a matter of finding the perfect person to make you content.
Happiness In Another Person
It is said that you shouldn’t depend on anyone else to be satisfied. There’s plenty of truth in that assertion. Of course, you must always seek happiness in your life. You can create it independently. But, it does not mean there is anything wrong with trying to discover happiness in someone else.
That’s the beauty that comes from being loved. It’s the best thing about being in a love affair with someone. It’s knowing that you don’t have to make decisions by yourself. The company of someone passionate about you can be empowering and motivating. Therefore, I wish that you find the person in whom you find joy. The happiness that comes from sharing is the most satisfying kind of happiness there is.