Why looking at what people say

Why look at what people say


Sometimes, I see most individuals saying I don’t like the way my spouse treats me. I want to divorce this marriage, but they still can’t divorce it. They stand strong because of what people, parents or spiritual leaders may say about them when they divorce. Due to that, they prefer to die in silence than to divorce their marriage. Still, to me, they are making a big mistake because marriage is an agreement between you and your spouse, but when you find out that they are not keeping that agreement that was made between you too, why then are you still with them, when you live all day with tears and sorrow knowing full well that marriage is not meant to be so but rather marriage is meant to be a thing of joy and happiness. I know you will think I am encouraging divorce, but I am not just telling the truth; if you find out that the marriage you are in does not work as you feel, please divorce and make use of your time because staying may lead to your death. You never know if they have someone they admire please leave now you still have time.

Suppose you are looking at what people will say, what your pastor or spiritual leader will say or how your parents will feel when you divorce. In that case, you are getting it all wrong and making a mistake that will result in your death or something else which you can never believe will happen, so why then are you making all these issues hard for you? Why, then, are you looking at what they will say instead of looking at what your heart wants or what is best for you? Knowing full well that you are not satisfied with your marriage any more, why then do you pretend to people? Why, then, do you prefer to die in silence, or do you think that what the masses may say is more important than your life? Listen, I have grown up in this world to understand that no matter what you do in this world, people must still talk,. There is nothing you can do to please everybody in this world because they are human with different brains, hearts and understanding, so you see, it is of no use looking at what people will say when you have not taken good care of your own needs.

You really need help seriously because there is no way you can hide it so that people will never notice that there is something wrong. After all, emotional feelings or family issues affect any activity we are doing as humans; why waste your time on that person who doesn’t know your value or the potential that you have? Why try to see if they can change, knowing fully well that it only happens in your dreams and not in real life? Look around you and read the signs and notice the people around you all live; notice those people you bother yourself with what they will say and see if they are ok and happy with their marriage. Look at your parents and tell yourself the truth about how many times they quarrel with them and see a reason now why you should divorce that man or woman who wants to ruin your career before it is too late for you.

Is your life my dear, and not their own life? Always bear that in mind because I can’t see the reason for you as a woman to still leave with that man who is only a boxer in your body, who came back late at night, who doesn’t bother if you have ever eaten or show concern as a man that loves you. I can’t see the reason you, as a man, stay with that woman who doesn’t show concern, cook for you, or even bother to know what you need and when you need her. It is better you think and take action about your problem; if possible, talk to a friend and learn how to go about it because it is said that a problem shared is half solved, so try to speak to a friend and reason together with the person, don’t you even see all these signs before you say I do to that person, if you don’t see the sign then is left for you to take actions now you see the signs to avoid dying in it.

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Sometimes thing that causes all these issues is how the person was trained by his parents, but we will look at that in some other articles, so now tell me, why can’t you divorce your spouse who doesn’t care about your happiness or progress? Why can’t you stop looking at your reputation, your career or that promise you believe you made during the wedding? Will you allow yourself to die of this problem? Remember that if you die today due to this problem, these people you are looking at will say or will still be there to blame you for not divorcing when you were alive, so think of it and set yourself free from that monster or person who doesn’t know your value and doesn’t try to waste your teas on them because they don’t deserve your tears neither do they deserve to have you in their life.

Think twice about this and make a decision now. I know that by writing this, many will say I am encouraging divorce, but I am just telling the truth, as I said before, because everybody deserves to be happy. When that happiness is not found where they are, the best thing to do is to leave rather than endure for the rest of your life and die young due to what the problem causes you.