Friendship is supposed to be built with trust and respect, for it tells how healthy a relationship can be.
In a situation where your Friend doesn’t respect you, it only tells you that your relationship with your Friend is unhealthy and needs to be ended.
Many signs tell if your Friend respects or doesn’t respect you, in case if you are looking for symptoms that describe disrespectful in a relationship.
Below are the signs that your friend doesn’t respect you. Also, make sure to read signs you’re falling in love to learn when you have fallen for someone.
Signs your Friend doesn’t respect you.
1. Laughing at your mistakes in front of others.
2. Interrupting you at all times.
3. Not being able to stand by you.
4. Gets angry seeing your success
5. Discouraging you in achieving your goals
6. Mocks you behind your back
7. Never wanting to help you out
8. Disappointment at the last minute
9. Unable to return your calls or messages for a long time.
10. Never keep your secret.
11. Never seems to support you
12. Give up on you after one fight
How do you know if your friend doesn’t respect you?
- 1. Laughing at your mistakes in front of others.
If your friend is the kind of person that always gets happy whenever he or she finds you making mistakes, to the extent of laughing at your flaws in public without covering and correcting you,
they never seem to fix you; instead, they will mock you and make you feel like a fool in everyone’s eyes so that they will be the only better person. This is one of the signs that shows that they don’t have any respect for you.
- 2. Interrupting you at all times.
Not being able to allow you to talk; instead, they will like to interrupt you so that people see you as if you don’t know what you are saying. He or she will never bear to see you speak confidently without interfering in your speech to make you look low in the eyes of others.
- 3. Not being able to stand by you.
Your Friend doesn’t respect you when you found out that he or she is not able to stand you move above them. They won’t be able to stay together with you for a long time without a kind of jealousy in his or her words. Of you notice such sign in your Friend, it’s a sign of disrespect, and that Friend of yours never seems to like you at all.
- 4. Gets angry seeing your success
A kind of Friend that usually feels angry whenever he or she found out that you are succeeding more than them is a lousy friend and never seems to have any respect for you as friends. A Friend is supposed to be happy seeing his or her Friend successful.
- 5. Discouraging you in achieving your goals
Discouraging you in achieving your goals is a sign of disrespect, and it’s awful to be seen in a friend. So if your Friend is not encouraging, especially in things that will make you a better person in the future, such a Friend is a bar one and cannot be trusted for any reason.
- 6. Mocks you behind your back
He or she mocks and gossip with your name at your back. They never seem to say something good about you; instead, they will like to grade you very low in the eyes of other people to condemn you. Such an attitude is disrespectful.
- 7. Never wanting to help you out
A Friend that never wanted to help his or her Friend no matter how the situation maybe is not a good friend and such a Friend doesn’t have respect for your friendship. A Friend is supposed to help one another.
- 8. Disappointment at the last minute
Disappointing your Friend at the last minute is the worst thing a friend can do to the other. A true and good friend shouldn’t let his or her Friend down, especially at the point of no other hope. It’s a sign of disrespecting that friendship that you shared.
- 9. Unable to return your calls or messages for a long time.
It’s disrespectful when you are unable to return or call your Friend who has being Calling or texting you. You feel so big to return your Friend’s call, and it’s a sign of disrespect.
- 10. They Never keep your secret.
A friend that cannot keep your secret is not respecting that friendship. It’s disrespectful to see your friend spill out everything you told him or her to stay for you, especially when they are saying it to the world without any sign of remorse. A good friend is one who keeps the secret of the other Friend, especially when they are told to do so.
- 11. Never seems to support you
A supportive friend is one that knows the true meaning of friendship, but one who is not favourable is not worthy of that relationship, and he or she is disrespecting the foundation of your friendship.
12. Give up on you after one fight
They never come back after you had one fight or argument. Misunderstanding is bound to happen between two friends, but not being able to reconcile and come back together as a friend is unhealthy and disrespectful.
What are some signs of disrespect?
- Door Slamming.
- Never apologizes even after hurting you.
- Disrespectful looks.
- Using disrespectful nicknames.
- They will need to change their behaviour.
- Refuses to speak.
- They may threaten to harm you with verbal abuse or emotional or physical violence if they are rude.
- Interrupting.
What are the signs that someone is not a good friend?
- You are too competitive.
- It is common to encourage bad behavior.
- Unreliable.
- Combative (likes to get into fights)
- Rude.
- Degrading or mean (makes you feel bad).
- Do not gossip
- It is common for others to bully you.
What do you do when your friend disrespects you?
The best thing to do if your friend doesn’t respect you is tonlearn how to be more disciple, learn how to respect your own self and do things that will bring more value in your life. You can also learn how to more skills and try to get your self busy to avoid seeing each other frequently. Remember this quote “You Don’t Know The Value Of What You Have Till You Loose It”. So in other to apply this quote just leave him/her for sometime and let the person know your worth and value in his or her life.
Summary
I ho[pe that by now you have understood the signs to see and believe that your friend or someone doesn’t respect you. So don’t try to force yourself on someone who doesn’t want you or know your value.
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