According to the dictionary, a kink is a sharp curve or twist in something straight and narrow. The term kink can be applied to the world of sex. It refers to unusual or eccentric sexual behaviour or fantasy, that is different from the “norm”.
People who are considered “kinky” can be turned on by all kinds of unusual sexual practices, positions and concepts. These include CNC and RACK. The most common form of Kink is BDSM. It stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission and SadoMasochism.
Some consider themselves “Vanilla”, or “Straight”, who prefer to be more conventionally accepted and less adventurous in their sexual behaviour: warm & affectionate and traditional foreplay, traditional lovemaking within the missionary position, etc. Because of Kinky many now see sex in different ways and of which makes sex to be more fun to them, considering how easy it is now to just head to any Kink store and more exciting stuff that makes sex more fun.
It is interesting to note that the lines between Vanilla and Kinky are becoming increasingly blurred. Some consider handcuffing and blindfolding quite Vanilla, while others think they are Kinky.
It is fascinating to learn more about the psychology of Kink. What makes a person Kinky? Many sexual kinks can be traced back to childhood memories and experiences. These are often rediscovered or reexamined later in life. Sometimes Kink is not related to childhood. It can be developed through the exploration of new sexual frontiers and interests.
It doesn’t matter your sexual preferences. No matter what sexual choice you have, you shouldn’t feel embarrassed or stigmatized. You might not even know what you like, which is okay. It doesn’t matter what your sex preferences are, it matters that you have sex that is enjoyable– physically, mentally, and emotionally. will love you unconditionally and will respect you. will take the time to get to know you and your body. Have fun and be safe!