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What you should avoid in marriage?

What you should avoid in marriage
What you should avoid in marriage

What you should avoid in marriage?


In marriage, we have thousands of things that are very important to avoid in marriage. But it happens that so many are yet to understand it and that is causing so much misunderstanding on our marriage today. Read carefully as we are about to write on the things that is necessary to avoid in marriage today.


What you should avoid in marriage?


  1. In marriage, you should avoid third party or you can call it middle person

What am I saying? A third person in marriage is someone that you allowed to be ruining your marriage but you may not know. For instance, if anything happens in your marriage, let it be between you and your spouse , let no other person know about that, because once they hear it, they will give you many advises that can collapse your marriage and they will laugh at you. You shouldn't let your problems be discussed from outside. Be yourself and work together with your spouse for he or she is the only family you have apart from your parents. Some friends are not to be trusted, some can be jealous of you and you may not know.



  1. Avoid letting your anger last for a long time

This is very important. Yes as a couple, you are bound to get angry or quarrel but never you let your anger pass that day. Make sure to settle that dispute in less than 30mins so that great misfortune won't fall on your relationship. So many people are agents that are there to be spoiling marriage, so if you allow your own marriage to be spoilt by them, know that you caused it. It is very necessary to be keep your anger at minimal, instead be the wrong person and apologize to the other, for two wrong does not make a right.

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  1. Be a good listener

In this aspect, it is very important to be a good listener even though you may not contribute financially but the fact that you have ear to his or her problems will help to solve the problems. Because, problem shared is half shared. Give ear to whatever he or she have to say, do not be too fast to condemn his or her words . Hear him or her first and judge him or her later.



  1. For the fact that there is love in that family, let every love be at equilibrium

Your love for your wife or husband should not leak at any cost, just for the sake of the children. You shouldn't love one particular child and at the same time making it clears for everyone to understand it.



  1. Avoid gossip

This is common but very important and it is unfortunate that most people ignore that. You shouldn't be among those women that gossip a lot on the street, or those men that gossip too. Be at your apartment and mind your business and family too. Not Every time there was a gossip in your area , people will be calling your name. It is always a shameful act and a disgrace to your spouse to observe that you are a gossip. A lot of things gossip brings to so many marriages, a lot of problems that can even lead to divorce are many. You should not gossip or listen to gossips. Gossips damage a well nurtured relationship at a blink of an eye.

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These most common things are the things you should avoid in your marriage so that your marriage will be at the best shaped. Drop your comments on the comments box if you have any.


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