Are you planning on a date? But don’t know the questions to ask, or what to say with the person, it’s the first date and first time of your meeting with the person. If that’s what you have in mind or you are confused about the questions that you need to ask or topics to talk about with the person.
Suppose the reason why you visit here today is to learn about all these things that I’ve just said. Then relax because I’m going to tell you the questions that you need to ask the person you’re meeting for the first time so that you will know these questions and not just knowing the questions. But you will also understand the reasons why you need to ask that person the questions.
First Date Questions
• Tell me more about you?
Asking this question will help you to understand more about the person and to understand the place the person comes from. You can also use the question to ask some other things about him or her that you remember, with this question you get to know each other and more about each other as the reason behind asking this question.
• What are the things that make you happy and the things that you hate?
With this question you will understand the person, the things that make the person happy and the things that the person dislikes. You will also appreciate the things that interest him or her, and what to do for the person and he or she will be happy, and you will also use this opportunity to learn the things that the person never want to see his partner or lover do.
If you start now to learn about all these things, it will help you to understand more and to avoid those things that make the person unhappy, and those attitudes that the person don’t like. By that, you’ll be doing the things that interest the person, and the things that he or she love most to avoid having a problem with the person in future if it turns out that you are going to be in a relationship or have something to do together in future.
• Which places have you ever dreamt of going?
There is nothing special about this, is just an opportunity for you to learn the things that a person has ever wished for, and the places he or she have ever wanted to go. You will also use this time to know if he or she have ever been there, and the reason why he or she haven’t been there.
If he or she have visited there before, you will then use this time to ask the person what he or she significantly loves there and why he or she wants to visit there again. All these things will keep the conversation and a discussion between both of you to be more exciting and more fun than being dull.
• Which school did you attend.
Asking this question will help you understand more about the education life of the person and the way he or she spent his or her childhood. There is nothing more to this, but with this question, you will also have lots of topics to discuss, as you learn about how the person school life back then when he or she was in school, there will be a lot of things that will make the discussion more fun. With all this, you will see more reasons to chat and to talk more with the person.
• Are you a working class.
By asking this question, you are indirectly trying to know if the person is a student, and even if the person is a student you will also use this opportunity to see if he or she is working and schooling at the same time, or if the person is just in school without doing any other job or work.
• What type of job are you into for a living.
Knowing what the person does for a living is very important, with that, you will understand the person and the kind of job he or she is doing. So that one day if you are being asked this question “what is he or she doing for a living since you said he or she is your friend?” You’ll be able to answer what that person is doing for a living. Another thing there is this, it is also going to help you to know the kind of person he or she is, sometimes the type of job someone is involved with do describe the kind of personality that is in him or her.
• How many are you in your family?
Asking this question is very important for you to know how many they are in their family, and to also see if he or she is the first or the last of the family. With these, you will also get to understand the kind of mentality or lifestyle that is possible for the person to be familiar with, because sometimes the way first kids behave is different from the way last act too. So with this question, you get to know the person well.
• What games do you love.
This question will help you to know if the person loves sports and if yes the person loves it. You will also understand the kind of games the person enjoys.
• What is your favourite meal.
With this question, you will know the food that the person loves eating most, and you will also love when the person loves eating it more. And if there is another unique way, the meal will be prepared, and he or she will love it more.
• What colour do you love most.
Don’t tell me you don’t know your best friends favourite colour. This is the best time for you to see the colour the person prefers since it’s your first time of meeting or having a date with the person.
• What is your best course in school.
It’s a fun or funny question that will get you both to smile and talk about the course you love and the reason why you got to love it.
• How do you like your partner to be.
Asking this question will help you to understand the kind of life he or she wants from the partner. It will also help to tell you if the person is the kind of person that you want to be with if the kind of life he or she wants from the partner is not by any way related to your lifestyle, it’s the best time for you to understand that you and the person are not meant to be unless one of you decides to sacrifice and do the things that please the other person, of which is not advisable at times because it can cause havoc in a relationship.
• Between distance and close relationship which one do you prefer.
There are many who don’t love to be together or to be close with the person that they are dating or the person that they are related with, sometimes they will also prefer to stay far and visit their partner once in a while. So asking this question will help you to understand if he or she has such a mindset.
• What do you love the most.
Everybody has something that they love most. You should know those things that he or she enjoys doing, most of the things that makes the person happy when he or she is doing it.
• How was your childhood experience.
Discussing your childhood experiences is very good and exciting. At times it will draw your mind back to remember the things that you have done before, and it will also flash your mind back to the things that have mattered most one time in this life, and all these discussions will make you relaxed and happier, to talk about the things that you have ever loved once in this life as a child.
• What is your type of movie do you watch.
Don’t be surprised to know that both of you may have the same interest in the same movie. Ask the person what makes him or her love that entertainment and what interests him or her most in the film, listening as he or she is saying this will help you to have more discussions with the person.
• Who is your best actress and actor.
It’s a funny question that will help you to have a long engagement, and argue a lot about any actor and actress, including the reason why you put it in this address or the other. You can also talk about the movie the person has been in, that makes you happy and more interested or to like the person in a film.
• Have you been in a relationship.
This question will let you know whether the person is a new bee in a relationship, and if the person has been in a relationship and what made him or her to break up with the ex. A better understanding of these will help you to know the way to treat a person if you are in a relationship with him or her.
• Do you believe in first love.
It’s not a serious question, but it’s a question that can make you both exercise lots of argument, and all these will keep you to be more interested and not being bored, it’s your first time of meeting each other or dating one another.
Finally on this topic what I want you to understand about the first date questions to ask someone is this, since it’s your first time of meeting the person, you people don’t have anything yet in common. So the question you should be asking the person will be mainly directed to anything that concerned knowing the person more.
And the kind of lifestyle the person lives, because it’s the first time of you sitting one and one with the person. With this question, you will tend to understand the kind of life the person is living and the kind of personality the person has. That is why it is very much advisable that you ask a lot of questions about the person, and the things he or she likes, to enable you to understand and to know the person better.