This has to be a trending question among youths in a relationship, and it’s a question that needs to be considered from the bottom of the heart to avoid regrets. Try to read and understand as we are about to write on it.
Would you compromise your happiness for the success of the relationship? …
Firstly, I want you to understand that there is a difference between compromise and sacrifice, both of them seems to be similar, but they are not the same.
- A compromise in a relationship is when you understand that a particular thing will bring real happiness into your relationship, for instance. Your partner may be a hot-tempered person and likewise you, but at that specific point in time, your partner is angrier than you or you as well, for happiness to reign, you will keep calm for him or her to calm down first before you can voice your anger so that there will not be a fight at that period. You have seen that you have compromised your happiness for the success of your relationship.
- Compromise in a relationship is when you notice your partner’s weaknesses and mellow down to help him or she amends it, without another person seeing it outside, even though it’s hurting you. But too much of it is very bad because a relationship without happiness is nonsense.
- Compromise in a relationship is when you try to learn about the things that interest your partner. The things that may interest him or her, may not interest you, but for happiness to reign, you have to like what your partner likes especially when you try to change it, and it’s not working for the fact that it’s not something that will cause you an everlasting pain. For instance, your partner is the type that likes alcohol, and you dislike it, but you have tried so many times to stop that, but he or she does not want it, and it is causing the problem in your relationship. Instead of fighting with him, because fighting him/her can make your partner go out and drink, but if you compromise that by using wisdom to follow him or her, like going out and get the drinks for your partner inside so that she or he can take it inside with you for the happiness of the relationship.
- Compromise in a relationship is when you observe that there’s a particular style that your partner desires on the bed. Still, you don’t usually like it, instead of being selfish by making only your pattern, you need to adjust and mix it so that both of you will feel happy and relaxed for the success of the relationship.
You can see that compromise in a relationship is not bad provided that it’s can channel a positive meaning into your relationship. And it is not the same with sacrifice, because sacrifice is when you give out the things that you needed the most for another person, which one day may hurt you and give you regrets all day.
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