Manipulation is another thing that makes a relationship unhealthy and it is not good to be welcomed. If you are looking for the “signs of manipulation”, and yet to find the answers, here is everything you need to in about manipulation and the signs that will make you know when you are being manipulated.
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Signs Of Manipulation
- Their attitude will make you feel guilty all the time.
- They make you doubt yourself.
- They like you to prove your love to them at all times.
- They always want to be in charge of everything.
- They will be angry at any little thing you do.
- They deprived you of happiness.
- They keep a lot of secrets from you.
- They are always selfish.
- They always want you to be under them.
- They won’t give you a chance to explain.
1. Their attitude will make you feel guilty all the time.
Feeling guilty because of your wrong deeds is normal, but feeling guilty because of what someone forced on you is manipulation. If you are in a relationship and your man or woman is making you feel guilty, on the wrong he or she did it’s a total manipulation.
He or she always compels you to feel as if you are the cause of the problem when you truly know that you are not the cause at all. Such an attitude of his or hers is not a sign of a healthy relationship but a total manipulation, and it should not be so. A relationship is supposed to be healthy for everyone.
2. They make you doubt yourself.
You don’t see yourself as anything, due to what your partner is doing. They make you have so many reasons to doubts yourself, without trying to consider. When you are in a relationship and you notice that there’s nothing you do that makes you valuable for him or her. You don’t see any reason to believe in yourself, instead, you depend on your partner’s decisions over your life. It’s your life, and you have every right to make decisions for yourself.
3. They like you to prove your love to them at all times.
He or she will always compel you to prove your love for them in anything, you find yourself trying to prove how much you love them, without them proving theirs. You are the only person trying to make your relationship healthy, you keep on proving it with one thing or the other. It is not supposed to be one-sided in any relationship, so be wise to know when you are being manipulated in that relationship.
4. They always want to be in charge of everything.
Manipulation in a relationship, one person will always want to be in control of the other. You will be controlled and you won’t have any right to have a say anything. Your stand will only be “YES” or “NO”. You won’t contribute, your decision will always be trash and will always make him or her angry.
So if you notice that you are in that kind of relationship, know that its a sign of manipulation. Not that your partner won’t have a decision over you, but just that it won’t be too much on you. Everything supposed to be at equilibrium.
5. They will be angry at any little thing you do.
This is another sign of manipulation if you notice that no matter what you do or say, your partner will always find a reason to get angry and at the same time make you angry. You won’t be appreciated for any reason. You will be scared of your partner due to, you are avoiding being hurt by them. You won’t feel free when you are with them.
6. They deprived you of happiness.
Have you ever felt unhappy and you have tried fixing it, yet it keeps on coming? Have you being scared of your partner to the extent, that you don’t feel any happiness when you are with him or her, instead you feel happier with other people outside your relationship? If you have been noticing that kind of behavior in them, just know that you are being manipulated and that makes the relationship unhealthy.
7. They keep a lot of secrets from you.
You never seem to know what your partner is up to. He or she always keeps a lot of secrets, despite having you around. You never seem to understand them, they are full of lies and never to be trusted due to so many secrets that they keep, yet you won’t leave them maybe because you are confused about what to do and what to decide. If you ever notice that in your relationship, it’s another sign that you are being manipulated.
8. They are always selfish.
In a relationship, there is supposed to be a sacrifice. If your partner cannot sacrifice anything for your sake, he or she is always selfish. They are just concerned about themselves instead of how you will feel. They never care to know what you like and what you don’t. Yet in everything, you don’t seem to understand what is going on in your life.
You are blinded by the love you have for them my dear, it’s not love but just an illusion. There is no how you will continue to date someone who doesn’t care about you but himself or herself. He or she can’t sacrifice any single thing just for your sake, but you keep on sacrificing for him or her. It’s a sign of manipulation.
9. They always want you to be under them.
They always want you to be under them in everything. They won’t try to encourage or support you so that you can be higher than them. He or she won’t ever try to bring the best in you, instead, they will be happy to see you fall and beg for their help all the time.
They will always encourage you to talk instead of encouraging you to stand firm on your fit and fight. Someone that truly loves you will always want the best for you, he or she will try bringing up the issues that can brighten you up.
10. They won’t give you a chance to explain.
They won’t see any reason to give you a chance to explain yourself. It will be as if you are always at fault. Your right to explain yourself won’t be given. You will keep on crying for them and asking for forgiveness of the things you know nothing about.
Summary
Manipulation in a relationship is never good and it’s never a sign of a healthy relationship. So with these signs listed above, we believe that you are able to understand the signs of manipulation in a relationship so that you will know when you are being manipulated.
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