She Is No More Sexy Wife To You
I always give a thought on this article, and I really feel bad seeing most men abandoning or cheating on their spouse, when I look at such men, I always ask myself this questions, are they not the one that decided to marry her? Or is their woman not a sexy again? Or is she not beautiful again? But the truth is that most men who do so are nothing but a womanizer, and cheater from the beginning even before they marry their wife because there is no good reason enough for you to give as an excuse for cheating on your her.
I was in a bus one day traveling to a nearby town and one man was arguing that if he is to marry today he may cheat on his wife, at first I don’t know what to say to him but I later ask him questions when he said that he will cheat on his wife if only his wife stop maintaining her shape, that is the words that moved me to ask him what he mean by that, only then he explain to me, although I will love her and promise to live forever with her, I will fail that promise only if that her sexy body or appearance change, only then will I leave love aside and look for the ones who still have that body and appearance that I need.
When he said this I ask him one question, what if you don’t give her that money she need to maintain that body, shape or appearance which you want, will you still look for a woman outside or will you still say she is not a sexy wife for you again? But he said that one is not his concern, all he knows is that her wife should always try to look good the way she is when she meet her.
For me I think that he is still wrong and right somehow, the truth is that most women are the one who give their husband chance or the opportunity to cheat on them, if you know that you don’t have money to maintain your body or you think that on a long run you may not maintain that body which attract men to you including your husband then stop doing so let the man marry you then because of how you look natural and not applying that which you cannot maintain.
If you are a woman and marry to a man and you don’t care to maintain your shape, or beauty for you to continue looking good just the way he meet you or even try to look more beautiful than the way he meet you, I think you are doing a big mistake because if you stop doing that which attract him to you others out there may help you do that for you and if such man is like the man mentioned above he may or will definitely cheat on you. So don’t think because you are married that you will stop to maintain that beauty which attract him to you, because if you stop you may end up losing him and in other to avoid that continue to maintain that body which attract him to you.
Then you as a man don’t expect her to know exactly what you want, sometimes it is good for you to suggest and help her make the choice because she must surely be happy that you tell her what you want and as a woman that love you he will always do that, so if she is not maintaining or doing that which attract you to her, try to talk to her and let her know about those act or things that she is not doing right than just sitting and thinking that she is not a sexy again, because nobody force you to marry her or force you to stop at the first place and friend her in fact is your duty as a man to make her attractive to you because she may think she is doing it right not knowing that you don’t like it that way so at this point is your duty as a man to tell her what to do and what not to do.
Stop cheating for is not good and not the solution to the problem instead you are creating more problems in your family, so for me I think cheating because your wife is not attractive to you again is not good and you really need to stop it and fix your wife back the way you want her to be, if she is becoming too fat call her every morning to jug and try to ask her to take some food that will make her look the way you want, if you think she is not beautiful again spend those money that you give to other women out there when you must have stay or sleep with them, take those money and give to her just for her to buy cloths and maintain her body again, only then you will notice that she is truly a sexy wife.
If you think am wrong do let me know or that you think there is something more to do about it do let me know because I believe that there are more reasons about this and I believe that many who also cheat on their woman is not just because his woman are not a sexy wife again but just that some men are womanizer, and due to that no matter what the wife do or the dress she wear they will always cheat on their wife and please if you are among those women who marry such man don’t kill yourself trying to but that don’t mean you will stop maintain yourself, I suggest you continue to endure it or divorce if you can, the way I said it in When looking at what people will say and know the best choice for you. so do comment for us to hear your own side of talk and learn too from that as well