Reasons not to beat your girlfriend or wife
At times I wonder why a reasonable man his with complete sense will lay his hands on a woman to beat her, I usual ask myself does it mean that he is not the one who accept and decide to love the woman or was he force to love his girlfriend or wife because I know that love does not in any way means beating, punishing ,suffering or shouting at your girlfriend or wife in public because is not good or advisable at all, if all you could do is to beat and hurt her then let her go a woman deserve to be love and care for, so try to understand and make her happy because love means caring, loving, defending and many good things you can think of that comes with it , so if you thinking that beating, shouting at your girlfriend or wife publicly or any other bad character you do to hurt your wife is good please stop it because they are not good in anyway.
Reasons why is not good to beat your girlfriend or wife
- You insult yourself too: Yes you insult yourself too but you don’t know, because you don’t know that when you are busy boxing with your wise that people are their watching you and mocking at you because your woman is part of you and there is nothing you can do to deny it, because if people are talking about your girlfriend or wife, they will in one way or the other talk about you too.
- You reduce you respect in public: By shouting and insulting your girlfriend or wife ,publicly you also do the same to yourself because you are telling the public that you and your woman cant settle your issues privately, come to think of it everybody has his or her problems with his partner but how many shout publicly about their problem because they know is not the best way to solve the problem rather people will lets them down or do you think they don’t have their own problems with their partner so why not you understand the level of disgrace you are giving yourself .
- She is not your prisoner or slave: For all I know only slave or prisoners are been beaten when they misbehave but why are you converting your woman to a prisoner or slave because she is not a slave but your partner and a piece that nature and God give you to complete your life , to be sincere a man’s life can’t be complete without a woman , God also know that and this is the reason he create a man and woman to be together so why then do you take her as a prisoner instead of partner, think twice as a man before laying your fingers on your woman because you can’t be complete without a woman beside to direct and make you happy.
- You will miss her full support and qualities: There is a special qualities of a woman that you will miss and you can easily make a mistake in some actions and things you do, because you beat her or shout at her always she may find it hard to advice, correct or direct you for her not to get you mad or angry and beat her like you always do, she will then prefer to let you be and always agree to what you say or suggest weather good or bad and if you turn your girlfriend or wife to such person you are missing a lot because there are many enjoyment about a woman you are missing, there is a a song of a poplar artist SHAGGY with a music titled “Strength of woman” in that song he said a lot about the qualities of a woman wish always inspired me a lot to value and love my woman more than ever.
- You are digging a grave: A man that beat his wife is indirectly digging a grave for himself or his woman because you might end up one day killing her or she kill you but the chances of her killing you is higher so why endangering your life and stop beating your woman, instead love and honor her more than you do to yourself.
As you have see one the few reason why beating your girlfriend or wife is not good now why don’t you take your time to love and care for your woman and enjoy your woman and your life now that you have the chance to do so, and you as a woman please always care, pray and protect your man as a part of you and your life.