Although it is not difficult to talk dirty, many people have difficulty doing so. It’s about being confident and willing to speak dirty to men.
Many girls are eager to get dirty with their boyfriends. But many don’t know how to do it. It is not something that comes naturally to most people. It’s possible to speak dirty to men and hold them in your hands much more quickly than you might think.
Confidence, practice and following some tips are the keys to success.
You don’t have to resort to using pornstar tactics to make an impact. Talking dirty can mean anything, from telling your man how great it feels to having full-on fantasies conversations.
Everyone has a different level of comfort, but it is up to you to choose the one that works best for you.
What is dirty talking?
The dirty talk involves expressing your pleasure, and your desires, and tell your man how great he is making you feel. It doesn’t seem as scary when you break it down this way, does it?
Dirty talk does not have to include explicit words about genitals or make you blush. If you try to talk dirty like that and your man doesn’t feel comfortable, he will also cringe. He wants you to feel comfortable. He wants you to have a great time talking dirty as much as he does hearing it.
It’s not good to try to speak a word that makes your face feel awkward. Find words you are comfortable with. If you don’t know any, try other words that won’t make your face hide.
The dirty talk should be something that you are comfortable having with your man because it makes both of you feel good.
It might not be something you like or look forward to. Don’t dismiss it until you have tried it.
How to speak dirty to a man
Talking dirty should be easy. It will once you know what it is.
Even if you have been in a relationship for a while, learning to speak dirty can make sex more enjoyable and sexually thrilling.
Talking is the best way to get into sexy situations with your man. Talking about sexy thoughts will make your words seem dirty.
These tips will help you to get dirty with men and still sound sexy.
1. When you’re horny, speak your mind
You’ll discover that there are many naughty things you think about while having sex. You can say it to your man if you can think of it. It’s going to sound foul if you’re sexually stimulated.
2. Have fun with your fantasies
Learning to talk dirty to a man is all about engaging in an active imagination. What fantasies are you most drawn to?
Imagine a friend who was sexy and you had sex with them while you were drunk. Imagine he’s a hot man you have a one-night affair with. What would that make you feel? What if you had sex with someone new? Wouldn’t it make sex more enjoyable and your orgasms better?
Talk to him about this.
3. Talk as if you are having an affair
What would it be like if you had an affair with each other? It’s the best way to get dirty with a man is to fantasize about sexually charged moments.
You could say something like, “If I were having an affair with someone like you, I’d get soaked just by watching you and adding a few more sexual personal lines to your sexy stories.”
4. Describe your dark thoughts
You want to get a man to do something before he gets to bed. When you have some time with your man, whisper what you would do to him.
It’s okay to get into the most intimate details.
5. Moan to him and let him know that you like it
Sometimes, you don’t even need to use words to get dirty with a man. Show your love by giving him wet moans and gasps when you make love.
It’s okay to gasp and moan every time he pushes you deep. That will give him the same horny boost as that sexy talk.
6. Sometimes it’s not what you say.
Speak anything you find sexy but speak it softly and in a hushed voice. It is not what you say that will turn him on but how you say it.
Do not try to be sweet or giggle. You can look sexy and confident in your body, but don’t try to be sweet.
7. Favors for parties
Talking about wild parties is always a big turn-on. Parties can be sexy, and often sweaty. Talk to him while you have sex and tell him all about the sexy things that you would do to him if you were in a crowd.
8. Talk about it, but don’t trash it
If you and your partner like trash-talking, don’t. Most guys find moaning or making excessively aroused facial expressions unproductive.
This may work in porn films, but it isn’t always true in real life. Unless your boyfriend treats you like a piece of meat.
If feelings are inextricably linked to bed, let your imagination take over and get him thinking. This will make your man more interested in you and provide better opportunities for dirty conversation.
9. If you and your partner are comfortable using crude words,
Some people like to call their partner a “bitch” and a “dog”, but it is not a common practice. Try it once and you’ll see if your man responds by calling you something indecent.
Don’t be surprised if he doesn’t say anything, or looks shocked. Just switch to another kind of dirty talk.
10. Talk about a sexual memory you have.
Do you remember any sexy moments that turned you both on? Maybe the time you nearly got caught or the last time you gave your boyfriend a head.
It can be very energizing and connecting for you to imagine and recreate a sexy memory with your partner, such as the first time you had sexual contact or letting him touch your breasts through dirty conversation.
11. Tell him how great it is.
You can start the dirty talk by telling your man that what he is doing feels good. You can then try to direct him a bit. You might tell him to go further, faster, and harder. This is how you get the idea.
He will love it when you tell him what you like and want, plus it’s the same as dirty talk!
12. It’s not enough to say “it feels good”.
You can talk dirty, but not boring. It won’t make your partner feel that you are trying to help them if you simply say “oh, it’s nice.” Use descriptive language and express how you feel.
It feels good, sure, but it’s not the only thing that makes you happy. It’s worth it!
13. Confidence is key to a confident conversation
It’s okay to not feel confident immediately. You must believe in yourself and work hard to build your confidence.
Tell your partner how great it feels to look him in the eyes. Tell your partner what you want from him and what you would like him to do for you. He will be more open to your confidence.
14. Eye contact is key to making a difference
As we’ve discussed confidence in speaking, let’s not forget to make eye contact. This is vital. This is crucial. If your partner doesn’t look you straight in the eyes when you talk, and you don’t shy away from talking to him, he will go insane.
Eye contact is a key tip for how to get dirty with a man.
15. Your body language is important too
Take a bite and play with your hair. You can even run your hands across his body!
Your body language will show that you are turned on and your words will be more meaningful. He will know what you are saying.
16. Relax!
It’s not easy, but it is possible. We understand your nervousness if this is your first time dirty talking to your man. There’s no need to be nervous.
This is likely to be his first time. You are effectively on the same playing field. You might want to reconsider this if you are anxious. You might not be ready, and that’s okay.
17. Simply tell him what you want.
Dirty talking gives you an “in” on what kind of sexual experiences are available to you. You give your partner a sexy guidebook he should if he is smart.
Dirty talking means telling your partner what you want him to do, or to him, before actually doing it. You also have the chance to ask your partner what he enjoys and what he would like to do.
18. Be yourself!
Don’t try to be a man and talk dirty to him. No, no, no.
You have to be yourself and get dirty talking to your man. If you don’t agree with his ideas, don’t follow him. He’s not telepathic so make sure to speak your mind!
19. Ease into it
Do not suddenly start talking dirty with your partner, especially if this is your first time. Begin by flirting, then build intensity. You can respond to him if he tells you he’s in bed.
He is alert and has time to prepare. He’ll be caught off guard but it will get him into the mood.
20. Be descriptive
Men are visual so you need to use lots of description when talking about dirty topics. Do not be afraid to tell him what you want him to do or how you feel about him.
He’ll be able to see you in your mind by using a description. This doesn’t necessarily mean you should use a lot of words. Keep it simple.
21. Use the five senses
There are five of them, so use them all. Multi-sensory descriptive words are a great way to create a vibe.
You will use sight and touch. But those aren’t the only senses that you have. Talk about sounds and tastes, as well as smell. Do not leave anything out.
22. Texting is a great way to start.
If you aren’t used to it, texting is the best way to get into dirty talk. You have more time to think and respond to what you want. It’s less stressful overall.
Comment on how you feel about your boyfriend and what it is like to take a shower. You can start to get into the dirty details.
23. Tone can change everything
When you are talking dirty, your voice can make a big impact. Deep, soulful tones can increase sexual tension and sexual sensuality. To rouse him, a higher pitch voice is also a good choice.
This is a great way to play with the dog and find out how he reacts.
24. Practice makes perfect
You won’t be able to talk dirty the first time. It is important to practice, even if it’s not easy. It is possible to practice alone for the first time.
Talk to him, and let him know that you aren’t an expert in dirty talking. He will guide you and help you.
Good dirty talk is made of lines
These are just a few of the sexiest and most dirty things you can say to your man.
- 1. You make me so wet.
- You look so sexy.
- It feels so big!
- I love how you feel within me.
- Ohh! Don’t stop!
- It feels so good!
It is so simple!
Talking dirty while making lines that don’t sound great
- More, more, more! We can trust him, he is doing his best! *
- Are you all that is left, big boy? Are you trying to emasculate? *
- Screaming *
- F##k him… *
- Do more… *You will make him feel inferior if you don’t compliment him after a few seconds. You can tell your friend that you want to make it more difficult than he is capable of doing. However, what you say will determine the outcome. *
- Tell me something dirty / Call me a bitch
Talking dirty to a man can make you sound sexy and sexual.
These are the best tips for how to talk to men. You’ll bring out the horny school kid inside him every time you have sex with him and talk dirty to him!