How to love yourself first(Become that better person You wished for)

This topic is very important and interesting in one’s life, it is the first thing someone needs to do before anything else. There are many ways in which you can love yourself and those ways are.

 

Do not do something that you will regret.

This is a crucial issue in one’s life, you should make sure not to do anything that you will regret in future. Always be careful in whatever you are doing, especially to other people so that you won’t regret your act in time to come.

 

Do not copy anybody’s behavior.

If you want to love yourself more, you should avoid copying anybody’s behavior, especially the one that will hurt people around you and yourself too. You should mind how you emulate people and try to be the one that people will be looking up to, not the other way round. You should be the best of your kind and never you be influence by other people, because you may not know how to control that behavior that you copied and thereby destroying your good reputation in return. You should always do your own which you know that you can control at any given time.

 

Do something that makes you happy.

Make sure to keep yourself happy at all cost. Do not always be the type of person that people will always be afraid of talking to or coming closer contact with you. You should be friendly with yourself and people around you for that will make you be lovable and at the same time, you will love yourself too. Never allow anybody to take away your happiness from you. You are your own boss when it comes to self happiness.

 

Don’t be arrogant.

You should know how to address people and to approach some certain things, your manner of approach matter a lot. Whenever you are mixed with other people, you should train yourself on how to talk politely and to tackle any conversation that comes to you no matter how it comes. Relax your mind and body whenever you want to speak with people so that you won’t make mistakes of talking arrogantly. When people detest you, you will hate yourself and you won’t be able to appear before them for any reason, due to you are ashamed of yourself. But when you are loved by people you will be happy with yourself and love yourself for being loved.

 

Be a kind person.

Being a kind person does not mean that you should take everything you have and give to other people, and then become empty or taking everything common even when the people you want to satisfy are taking you for granted. You just need to be kind for those that value the kindness. You should help others because when other people are happy because of you, you will see that you will always feel happy too and that happiness will give you the love in your heart. Happiness of the heart is the best thing that can give you everlasting love.

 

Do not waste any opportunity that comes to you especially the positive ones.

You should always be ready to understand when a positive and good opportunity is coming your way so that you won’t miss it. When an opportunity is missed by you unnecessarily, you will see that you will hate yourself for as long as you breathe. But if you are always at alert to notice and understand when an opportunity is coming your way and be ready to grab it, you will see that you will forever love yourself for being smart in grabbing such opportunity. So be wise and be at alert all time.

 

Let there be time for everything in your life.

In this aspect, you are expected to be friendly but not stupid, you should have your own time for self meditation and time of public discussion. You should be ready to know when your brain and soul are coming together for a better agreement. You should not misuse any of your time. Make yourself standard so that people around you will also know that you are a responsible human being, and that you know what you are doing. Everyday should not be a day of jokes and play, create sometime for calculation some other crucial things so that it will master you. When you do that you will surely achieve a great goal and once that goal is achieved you will forever love yourself.

 

 

In Conclusion

 

Loving yourself have to do with so many things which we have listed above, and with those points, we believe that you are able to understand how to love yourself, be happy and not feel depressed, and we also believed that you are not confused again.

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