I will guide you on how to let go of someone and move on with your life. Are you in love with someone but now want to leave the person? The one you love don’t love you back and you want to leave?
Whatever that is your reason of letting go of someone, just relax for I will share with you the things you will do to let go of that person.
So now let me go straight to how you can let go of someone.
How To Let Go Of Someone
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Make up your mind fully.
You need to fully decided within you and accept that this is what you want. You need to say yes I really want to let go of this person. Like fully on your own and make that decision, is now time to work towards it on your actions and not words.
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Remove things that remind you easily about the person.
If there are things around you that remind you about the person you need to remove it at least for now, till when you are strong and can stay without thinking about the person. Doing so will help you a lot on this decision that you made.
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Take care about yourself more.
You need to direct all your attention and problem to yourself. Think on the things you need most, the things that are lacking in your life, how to look good and neat. In fact direct all your attention to yourself and practice self love and take a very good care of yourself.
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Think only about how to make yourself happy.
Like I said it’s time to practice self love, and everything should be all about you, all about your happiness, doing all the things that you love and care most. If you can start right now to do those things that you care more, to do the things that makes you happier then you will get over it.
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Go to places that make you happy.
This is one of the essential ways on how to let go of someone. Is there a place you have ever wished you could go? Then now is the best time to do it. Start now to visit all the places that you love and always wanted to visit, and then start now to go to those places and make yourself happy.
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Keep yourself busy with better things.
Instead of sitting all alone thinking about one person. Why not look out for something that can keep you busy and start doing those things. Why not make use of that time in doing something new and exciting for your life. So please instead of thinking look for any activities and engage yourself with it.
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Accept you are better and need more care and love than you have now.
Telling yourself that you are better and need to be loved more is the best way for you to let go. Think about all the things that have happened and look deeper into it you will understand that the person is not meant for you.
You need more love and care than the way you are right now. So it’s time to let go, for you to meet someone who can do it for you better or you can move on to take good care of yourself for now.
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Share with friends.
Talk to your close and trusted friends, they will help you out. Spend more time with them and visit more places with them and you will see that you can let go easily and faster. So I advise you share with good friends, for a problem shared is half solved.
How To Let Someone Go
- Let there be a total settlement of issues between you both.
- Withdraw every communication.
- Do not run away from your feelings.
- Develop a forgiving spirit.
- Avoid following their social media.
- Avoid fantasies
- Make sure that you are making the best decision.
- Improve yourself in a better way.
1. Let there be a total settlement of issues between you both.
If you are truly ready to let go of someone, you should be prepared to accept and face the reality of whatsoever transpired between you two, no matter the challenges you may be experiencing. You shouldn’t be enveloped with what happened and who caused that. Letting go means admitting the truth, and determining to face anything that may occur, whether he or she breaks your heart or that you broke their hearts.
You two should come together and settle your differences, then wish yourself luck in any other relationship you may be in. Every one of you should accept his or her mistakes and make peace with each other to work on happy and free In case if you meet each other somewhere else.
2. Withdraw every communication.
Before you should be able to let go genuinely, you should be ready to disassociate your self from that particular person. Calling or chatting them up will only do you harm. Their memories will not allow you to let go, but if you can withdraw every communication you have with him or her, it will help you and make things easier for you and the person.
You won’t be able to heal fast if you allow the person that hurt you to be close. Remove his or her contact from your phone, both messages, and pictures. Anything possible of connecting your heart to them should be removed for a better recovery.
3. Do not run away from your feelings.
Being with what you are feeling will make it easier for you in terms of letting go of someone. You shouldn’t hide your feeling. The longer you do it, the worse it will be in you.
Face the pain head-on, and do not run away from it. The more you keep it, the more it will hurt you, and because it is bothering you, it will then make things easier for you.
You won’t continue to harbor the things that hurt you a lot. So, you shouldn’t run away from your feelings. Accept that you want to let go of that person so that you can focus on the plans that you have.
4. Develop a forgiving spirit.
Practicing Forgiveness at the time you want to let go is a beautiful thing to do, for it will minimize the level of your heartbreak and make things easier for you to forget.
It is not easy to forget the person you love to talk more about letting go of that person, but as soon as you develop that spirit of forgiveness, you will see that things which you think is not possible will be possible.
You will start seeing things from a different perspective. Sometimes the cause of your problems in your relationship may not be your partner’s fault. Sometimes it may be your fault, but you may not recognize it till you find out that your relationship is over. That is the main reason that you need to forgive the person and accept whatever that happened to move on faster.
Depending on whatever that may happen between you two, it may take time to heal. However, in most cases, if you invest the time to be with yourself and listening to what goes on around you and being reasonable and compassionate within yourself, it will be easier for you to heal.
5. Avoid following their social media.
This is very important for anyone that wants to let go of someone. Looking at their social media will only cause you more pain, especially if there’s a new development in their life. It can be reminding you of the things you have being through with them and can as well revive your memory on them. Stop following them on social platforms, or looking at their post and pictures updated by them.
If you genuinely determined to move on with your life, you have to stop letting him or her maintain a lasting impact on you and take the lead on unfollowing then on social media.
6. Avoid fantasies
Stop fantasizing on them, wishing that they are with you, hoping some kind of intimacy with them when you know that you want to let go of the person. Do don’t think that things might work out between you two if you do this or that when you know that you are determined to let go. A lot of fantasies have nothing to do with letting go of someone; instead, it opposes the thought of letting go.
So you have to stand up for what you want and fight against anything capable of weakling your plans. It is not necessary to be behaving abnormal simply because you separated with your partner. In a relationship, it will only harm you or condemned your real you. Just accept that you are determined and you can do it.
7. Make sure that you are making the best decision.
Before ending your relationship, make sure that you know what you are doing. Ensure that it’s not for any selfish reasons because it may backfire one-day, and you may turn back to regret your actions. So before you make any decisions, especially this costly one, be sure that your relationship is worth ending.
Check yourself in and out, know if you are making a mistake or not, then, when you are entirely sure that things are right, you can go ahead. To be sure, you can as well seek for a little space to know what you want.
8. Improve yourself in a better way.
If you decide to let go of someone, try not to be that your old self. Try to be in a better place, so that the person won’t be able to meet you at that place he or she left you. Be positive, realistic, and motivated enough to pick up with a new beginning to achieve better and higher things in life.
Instead of spending all time thinking about that person, why not use that time and achieve something more significant for yourself, so that your family will be proud of you. Be strong, and do not wait to be advised, or to be sympathizing with, instead be gallant and active enough to move on with your life.
Always remember that, when you are coming into this world, you didn’t know that you will meet someone like that person in your life, with these words, things will be more natural for you. Make use of that encouraging words.
We believed that you could understand how you should let someone go. Always remember that some people are not meant to be with you, and some are involved in being with you.
So once you are not comfortable with anyone in any relationship, you should let go and move on with your life. Or if someone break-up with you, you shouldn’t go and hurt yourself, instead follow the guidelines given to you on the above list to know how to move on and let them go.
After reading, also try to read signs someone doesn’t want to be your friend for you to know if the person wants to be with you.
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Finally I want you to understand that you can let go immediately, but doing all these can help you.