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How do you trust someone again?

Yes I understand that you are hurt badly and I understand that you are in serious pain. We all do face the issue in one way or the other. And I also understand how painful it is to be hurt or betrayed by someone we care about, but that won’t make us not to love or care about people again. So no matter what it is we must try to move on to our life. And that brought us back to the question. “How do you trust someone again?”

How do you trust someone again?

 

By trusting yourself.

For you to learn to trust, you must first learn to trust and believe in yourself. Don’t treat yourself as if you don’t know how to get a good person to trust again, but instead believe you can. Learn the mistakes you made and correct yourself and trust yourself that you can love again.

Learn to trust others.

Don’t close your heart because of one person actions towards you. Remember that there are many in this world and we are all different individuals with different characters. So learn not to treat them bad, because of how someone or the other treated you. Even if they are many that hurt you believe you will still meet the good person for you.

Forgive yourself.

Learn to forgive yourself and don’t treat yourself anyhow. Instead forgive yourself and learn to treat yourself more special and care than other people do to you.

Forgive others.

Learn to forgive others that hurt or wronged you. Because doing so will help free your mind and help you embrace new people. So forgive people who hurt you so that you can easily move on.

Have High expectations.

Remember that the way you treat yourself is the way people will treat you. So don’t look down on yourself and expect people to treat you high. Don’t have low expectations because you are hurt by someone. Instead treat yourself high with good and better expectations for yourself.

“How do you trust someone again?”

Forget the past.

Don’t try to keep holding on to the past. Try to forget and move on with your life. Remember that what have happen has happen and you can’t change the past. So try to forget it and expect the better things ahead.

Learn to leave happily alone.

Don’t believe you need someone beside you to be happy. But try to make yourself happy with things around and learn to leave happily by yourself. Do the things that makes you happy and go to places that makes you smile. Remember nobody holds your happiness, but only you can make yourself and life a happy one.

“How do you trust someone again?”

Believe in the future.

Like I said forget the past for what happen has happen. Believe in the future and trust on it to have better things, life and people who will love and trust you on all, who will love you for who you are and not what you are. So believe in that and be free to people so that you can meet the right one to trust.

Conclusion

To trust again looks hard but it’s easy only when you forgive the one who hurts you and also forget the past. Believe that human being can change and expect anything from anyone at anytime, because we all are human. So be free and free your heart from the things that has happen and believe that there are better days and things ahead in future.

“How do you trust someone again?”

Onyedika Boniface

Born in family of life. Love seeing everybody in a peaceful and happy relationship and marriage. Address: no 23 Ase-Eme village, pH. Road, Ohabiam,Aba South, Abia State, Nigeria. Phone number: +2347062470552 Email: [email protected]

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