How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?

How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?

To tell what a guy wants is really easy, because hook ups and relationships are all different things entirely. So you asking this question should relax for I got you covered. By the way am Dominic and I welcomed you here at Be Wise Professor. We try our best here to answer your entire relationship questions and some health related questions too. Now let go back to why we are here. “How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?”


How do you tell if a guy wants a relationship or just a hookup?

There are signs that tell you what a guy want from you, and what a guy doesn’t want from you. So am going to tell you those signs, and give you little explanation on them for you to understand it all.


Here are the signs.


  1. You don’t know his place or visit his place.

Any guy who want something from you that is more than just hookup. Will surely encourage you to know his house and ask you to visit him sometime. So you that is asking this question, lets now ask you this. Have he ever ask you to visit? Do you even know where he truly lives?

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If your answer is no then know that he doesn’t want to get serious with you.

“How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?”

  1. He only calls you to hangout with him.

There is nothing much to explain here to you because any man who only call you just to hangout with you, only or just to go to bar, restaurant or hostel. Without calling at time just to sit in your place or his place and talk, want nothing from you than just that hook up.


  1. He doesn’t call you to ask how you are doing.

If he calls you only those times he wants to hook up with you or hangout. Without calling always to check on you, and know how you are doing and if everything is okay. In fact if he never calls you as boyfriend calls his girl then he doesn’t want to be in relationship with you.

“How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?”

  1. He doesn’t bother introducing you to his love ones or people around him.

This one should even sound as a big bell like warning or red flag; because what it means is that you don’t mean anything to him. And believe me when I say anything I mean you don’t mean anything at all to him. Because men are plain in things that concern relationship, in the sense that if he want anything more than hookup with you he will make his family or even his friends know about you, it’s as simple as that.


  1. How does he present you?

Try to watch or monitor how he presents you, when you are with people. Is he referring you with your name, as a friend or as his girl. Ok let’s say you two are together and you meet someone and after greeting with the person, how does he introduce you. E.g. “Meet Jersey, and Jersey meet Michael. ” or “My Dear/Baby meet Michael and Michael meet my friend Jersey” I believe you now understand where am heading to with this example, because the two introduction are not the same that same way hook up and relationship are not the same.

“How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?”

  1. Buy you gifts.

Apart from the normal things he buy for you when you hangout together. Have he ever surprise you by buying gift, or anything at all no matter how small it may look. Because one thing is that they buy gift to the girl they love and want to be in relationship with. So if he doesn’t buy you gifts, then know that he doesn’t want to take you serious.


  1. He will tell you.

Guys don’t hide their feelings. He will be open to you and tell you his mind. But if the guy is the type that is scared, or not bold enough to voice it out, then he will surely poses all I said above the difference is that he will call you your name, but will surely introduce you as friend. So you see guys don’t hide themselves in terms of relationship with girls.

“How Do You Tell If A Guy Wants A Relationship Or Just A Hookup?”


All this I said above most be seen in a guy in one way or the other. So don’t see only one sign and rush and conclude that he wants to be in relationship and end up been disappointed and you will say that Be Wise Professor have deceive you.


So to avoid all this heard, make sure to check for all this signs and don’t forget to tell us how you feel, and what you think about this issue so that others can learn too. Make use of the comment section now and say your mind. Cheers

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