Anyone who’s had gay sexual encounters, thought about gay sexual relations, or seen gay sex shows will realize that there are countless combinations of homosexual sex roles. But where do we begin? What is the best way to feel? How do gay men have sexual sex?
Our guide of the top four accessible – and, we believe, the most enjoyable – sexual orientations for gays can help you get going.
Before we start thinking about the best way to get it done, we recommend safe sex. We suggest you look at our guide to PrEP and use condoms when you’re having sexual relations.
First of all, shapes and sizes
What you find to work for you and/or your spouse/s depends on your body dimension and form. For once, we’re not talking about cocks.
If you’re tall and the man you’re chatting with is smaller, you’ll be in a position to get into positions that big guys wouldn’t be comfortable in.
The bottom line is the angles that matter, various degrees of flexibility, and the ability to change or hold places.
Who said that Physics was boring?
Sexual positions
Most of these gay sex positions are sex anal; however, there are some non-penetrative sexual roles in the middle too.
If you’re looking for more information on anal sex, here’s another general guide to anal sexual experience that covers douching communication, lube, and other things.
The top, the bottom, or multi-purpose?
We’ll examine gay sex from the viewpoint of the top and bottom.
Lucky for you can do both if you’re versatile (and we’d love for you to be). In certain gay sex roles, the top person is in charge, while in others positions, the bottom is the one who leads.
Pay attention. Otherwise, you could not be able to catch your turn.
Are you curious why certain guys are at the top while others are at the bottom? This is a scientific study from 2017 that talks about it.
Try first with the gay missionary position.
The position of this gay sex mate may seem monotonous, but not, it’s not, we’ll promise. It’s among the most comfortable position for an upper, and it’s not particularly difficult for the bottom.
Before that, however… The foreplay
When you’re gay and engaged in foreplay or sucking his body while he’s lying down, continue the licking, kissing, and sucking while you move your lips toward his balls.
Continue to go towards his perineum (the portion between him and his groin) and then to his butthole.
Bottom line: If you’re having fun with this, let him know by making a couple of groans and moving your arse closer to the point where your tongue is.
If he’s still keen, keep feeding him your body. Crack open his cheeks and go deep by licking your tongue. If you can, which influences body shapes and sizes, lift his arse up a little.
Find a pillow to make a spit.
A pillow placed under the butt’s bottom can help to lift his tummy to make it easier for access and more comfortable for both partners.
Begin to rub your cock against his hole. Spit onto your cock. Use condoms and lube in the event of sexual sex penetrating.
Seeing eye to eye
The position of a gay missionary can be beneficial for keeping the eye and direct communication throughout sexual sex.
You can get into your partner slowly and cautiously while keeping your eyes on the target. It’s possible to build an intensity that you’re both confident in. It’s also easy to get back in if you fall out since you’ll be able to see clearly.
Legs in the air
After you’ve both settled and comfortable, try putting his legs in the opposite direction when you’re at the top. You can also place them on your shoulders to get deep.
Bottom: You could also pull your legs back by yourself, behind your knees, or on your feet if you’re able enough!
Try riding an individual’s cock
Suppose you’re just beginning to get sexually abused or are unsure about revealing your true identity in a gay sex relationship. In that case, this position might be a good fit for you because, at the bottom, you’ll be in the ability to control.
It’s an excellent method to build confidence when getting cocked. If your cock begins to hurt, you can ease down and lower yourself on the person at your speed.
It is necessary to have some athleticism to be capable of riding your horse. You’ll need to go up and down and a little in and out, all simultaneously. Similar to riding on a horse.
This could be difficult if you’re taller than your average height or a more muscular person since gravity is a factor. Make sure that you don’t crush the man beneath you, or you’ll put him in danger of losing his sexuality.
Bending over
If you’re standing – which you could be in a sex bar, sauna kitchen, dance floor, and so on, bending your body for an upper, or even bending someone else over, could be an excellent way to win.
If this is comfortable on the bottom is dependent on, yes, the angles.
Rectums for men vary, so the difference in height as well as the shape and size of your cock and the angle you’re taking him to, and the angle you’re f**king him from will all play an important role in the success (pleasurable) of this wonderful gem of a position can be.
Top: Start slow and allow him to become comfortable.
Bottom line: telling him that you’ll be back onto his cock; therefore, taking the lead or setting the pace could aid.
Adjust your posture by putting your back and letting it out until you reach the most comfortable posture.
Tops: This is an excellent option If you and your spouse are known to be a bit raunchy. Keep your waist in place and draw your entire body in. Hold onto the shoulders while bent forwards to give him a more upwards push.
Doggie style
It’s a bit more complicated than it appears because you’ll need to put your body in a way that allows your top to enter.
The answer is either yes, or no. If you’re on top, you should get close to your partner, who ought to be right ahead in front of you, on your feet. You’re winning if your cock is aligned perfectly with his tummy.
If your angles require movement or access at an odd angle, it can cause pain for both of you. Try it; however, it’s likely to be worth trying other options.
Bottoms: be aware that your knees could become painful, and it’s difficult to see your partner’s face clearly, making it difficult to determine if you’re having fun.
To the right
One of the most enjoyable is not just because you can keep watching Netflix. Bottoms – lie on your back, with your back turned. It may help to raise your cheeks so that your top finds your ideal spot.
Once inside, lie beside your partner and place your arms around him.
It’s intimate since you can hold him close while kissing his neck and face. You can also be able to pump quite hard. It’s all in your hips!
This is the basic idea of anal that’s covered.
Of course, there are many more complicated options, like that greasy sparkler on the vine and the unicorn (or something else); however, try the four we’ve covered, and you’ll find yourself returning to them over and over.
Are you not a big lover of anal? Don’t stress!
Gay males don’t need to be sexually active.
Find the most effective oral sex posture for both of you… it’s the one that’s 69.
Finding a suitable 69 spot can be challenging, and there are many methods for doing it.
If you’re of the same height, you can lay on top of each other from top to tail, ensuring your faces are in each other’s crotch. Are you in different sizes? The taller one can curve into a V to ensure your pieces are correctly placed.
If you’re slightly more athletic, another method to achieve this is having your partner lie down facing up. Put yourself into a push-up position with your cocks and mouths lined up. From this position, you can take his mouth off from the top.