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Bored With Life

Sometimes in life, we one way or the other get bored. Maybe as a result of sticking to one thing, stuck in one place, doing or repeating one thing regularly the same way, lonely or having an uninteresting moments.

Being bored in life can also come as a result of things not going the way we want it, maybe you have tried your best on a particular project, work or some important matters in your life and it seems as if your best isn’t enough. Instead of getting bored, I advise you, don’t get stuck in it, try a new thing, or maybe try the former one in a new way, because in life, there is always a way out.

BAD EFFECTS OF BEING BORED

There are some bad or dangerous effect that takes place when one is bored, sometimes unknown to the person being bored. Being bored is part of life, but staying bored for a long period of time is bad.

These are some of the negative effect it may have on you.

1) It brings about depression. Depression is a state of mind producing serious, long-term lowering of enjoyment of life or inability to visualize a happy future. It is also a period of unhappiness or low morale which lasts longer than several weeks and may include ideation of self-inflicted injury or suicide.

It makes you not to see life the way others are seeing. It makes you feel that life is naturally bored, while in the real sense, life itself is the most interesting thing in the world.

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2) It brings about unhappiness. Being bored makes one unhappy with life. In life, happiness is the strength behind every fulfilled dream. So, when you lack happiness as a result of being bored, things won’t go well with you. So, the best you can do for yourself is get your happiness back and move on with life.

3) It makes you uncomfortable. This is also one of the negative effect of being bored. It makes you really feel uneasy or discomfort within the environment or where you are, that atimes, people around you might be forced to ask you what is actually wrong with you.

HOW TO GET OUT OF BOREDOM

Are you bored with life? And maybe you didn’t know what to actually do to get out of it. Not to worry, we gonna help you. These are some of the ways you can get out of your boring state.

GO OUT FOR A WALK

When you are bored or getting bored, go out of the place and have a walk. You can go to a restaurant to have lunch or whatever. Just having a fresh air outside or somewhere interesting will help you to get out of your boring state.

CHAT WITH FRIENDS

You can chat with your friends, tell funny stories, joke and do a lot of things together. Engage in an interesting conversation with your friends. So far, the company of friends have been the best solution for boredom.

While talking or chatting with one another, you won’t even know when you get of your boring state. One thing you have to know is that loneliness sponsors boredom. So avoid being lonely in order not to get bored with life, expect when you needed a quiet time.

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WATCH MOVIES

If you are bored with life and don’t really know what to do, you can watch some funny or interesting movies to get you out of this state. Watching interesting movies takes your mind off from every other thing around you and makes you feel more better than before.

REPOSITION YOURSELF

When you get bored over a particular thing or place, the best thing to do in this state is to reposition yourself. For instance, you can try doing new things that will really make you happy or try changing the environment or relocating to more exciting place, if your work or job permits you to do so.

TRY PLAYING A MUSIC

Music is connected with the mind and body, just being bored is connected to the mind and affects the body. When you feel bored, try playing a music that makes you happy and makes your heart merry. Playing music has really helped a lot of people get out being bored with life. If possible, dance while the music is going on, and you will see the magic behind the melody of music.

BE OPTIMISTIC

Being optimistic about life will also go a long way in helping you come out of boredom. See the better and happier side of life. Always expect the best in all possible ways, and even if it didn’t come out, be persistent. Be driven by your own passion to reaching and achieving your goals in life and automatically you won’t feel bored with life.

Onyedika Boniface

Born in family of life. Love seeing everybody in a peaceful and happy relationship and marriage. Address: no 23 Ase-Eme village, pH. Road, Ohabiam,Aba South, Abia State, Nigeria. Phone number: +2347062470552 Email: [email protected]

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