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6 Things that hurt girls most

6 Things that hurt girls most that you need to know as a man for your woman to be happy

There is something I want you as a man to understand about women. They are soft hearts; they think straight. They are easily hurt, so it is not good to always care and pamper them like a child and also call them sweet and emotional names that will always make her happy, always make a promise to her. Still, dot makes a promise you can never keep because falling of commitment hurt ladies more than any other acct of you. There is always something that makes a woman happy, so try to know what makes your girl happy.

1. Break Of Promise.

Nobody will be happy when someone breaks a promise made to them. That same way, there is nothing that hurts girls most than breaking a promise you made. When I mean promise I don’t mean just leaving her, but there are some promises you can make to a girl, and you think it is nothing, but you don’t know it means a lot to them, so why hurting her heart with those promises that you can never even keep or take it as nothing when it involves the whole world to them.  Please try to make a promise you can continue and not hurting them or taking it like fun.

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2. Lack of Trust.

Whenever I think about this, it makes me smile, remembering those times when I always ask my lady what can I do to make her happy, and she will say 1. Trust me, 2. trust mee, 3 trust meeee, remembering this always make me smile because I once found it hard to trust my woman but when I realize that trusting her makes her happy and gives her confidence to stand firm with me, I gave her my trust because her happiness is my happiness. So try to trust her because it will hurt her most, knowing you don’t trust her. If she a stand by you and believe you, why then will you not trust her.

3. Value every time she spends with her.

Sometimes we make a mistake of not understanding what it means to have a moment or minutes spend with your love. I want you to understand something, whenever you always value the time spend together with her and treat her special on time spend with her only then will you be making her happy, when you fail to understand this then know that she will always feel hurt because knowing the fact that you will never value the time spent with her will still hurt her, So if you want to see her happy always try to appreciate the time spend with her and giver her reason to be with you.

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4. Always listen to me.

This also makes me smile remembering those times I use to feel that my thought and actions are the best, thinking that my girl words mean nothing or don’t add any help or value to me, but am wrong all these times on this because her words mean a lot. Sometimes she may make a mistake, but remember nobody is perfect even you as a man make mistakes, so why not try to listen to her also if those words are not helping try to listen first to her.

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5. Defend her.

If you are among those men who always lack defending your woman, my question is this “If you cannot protect her, who then will protect her? No matter what, she did always try to defend her. Believe nothing makes her happy seeing supporting her at all times even when she is outside or did something wrong outside try first to protect her and then correct her when you both are inside, doing so make her happy and give her more joy.

6. Using And Dumping Her.

This is the highest thing that pain ladies most and the majority of men out there always do this with most of the girls they date, and I don’t advice you to do this to a girl because you gain nothing doing so and may one day end up doing it to a girl who will never bear the pain and hurt you down. If you as a man don’t love a girl, please don’t date her because toiling with a girl feelings is never good, remember you will not be happy if you meet a girl who eats your money and dumps you so try never too so to your girl, for the fact you meet her today and sleep with her don’t mean that she is a cheap girl, so don’t ever try to take her for granted.    

Conclusion

Girls are so fun and lovely to be with, a lady that loves you will always think of you, she always tries not to hurt you or do things that make you unhappy, so try to repay them with love, care, petting, attention, and concern. Makes her feel like the luckiest woman on earth, causing her to be proud of you, pet her in any way you can, pamper and pet her in all you do, use sweet and soft voice when talking to her, treat her like a queen, always listen to her and direct them any way you can. Think of a girl like a child who needs all love and attention and try to do all these and you will see that she will never hurt you but will always stand by you to defend you in any way she can when you hurt her try to call her back and say am sorry to her, pet her and don’t be harsh with her, always remember that Wounds that are caused by love can only be healed by love. So be the one to heal the wound in her heart weather is caused by you or any other person, is only you who can improve it!

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Onyedika Boniface

Born in family of life. Love seeing everybody in a peaceful and happy relationship and marriage. Address: no 23 Ase-Eme village, pH. Road, Ohabiam,Aba South, Abia State, Nigeria. Phone number: +2347062470552 Email: [email protected]

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