You’ve achieved your goal for the year. we are proud of you and admire you for remaining resilient and never abandoning yourself in such difficult times! We have a motto in our blog Relationship Rules – learn from our experiences and share our lessons with the world. The last 2 years of our lives have shown us how to treasure the quality of our life, our emotions and the people we cherish.
The relationship is a complex yet highly rewarding game. They’re not meant to be easy however they’re not meant to be complicated either. In the end, a healthy and healthy relationship can help you thrive as a couple and as individuals, whereas unhygienic relationships can leave you feeling depleted and emotionally broken or even worse.
Here are 13 relationship rules we would recommend that you apply:
1. Stop Blaming, Start Accepting
We won’t be able to grow by blaming others. Blaming only leads to more blame, and it’s a spiral of blame. Accept our mistakes and stop blaming each other. This isn’t a game It’s a bonding that is formed by two souls.”Love is about two people sharing and respecting each other, not a race of mistakes and flaws.”
2. Learn Together, Everyday
Our minds are in search of information. A healthy couple can learn from each other, free of preconceived notions and egos. The day that you think that you are in control is the day that you cease to grow. Life is an ongoing learning process A couple that is learning together prospers. Take pride in each other’s capabilities, but also stand by each other’s mistakes.
3. Cherished Emotions Last Forever
A happy couple understands the true importance of feelings and emotions. When two humans are connected by a strong emotional bond They face life’s challenges with a smile, knowing they have a reliable support system. The people who prioritize their emotions over the physical and spiritual elements of their lives are most happy.
4. Never Forget the Importance of Self
A happy couple understands self-worth. If two people are truly in love with one another, they accept and cherish each other’s authentic selves, not the person they might transform into. True love doesn’t alter your life, it will only enhance your self-esteem. It will help you appreciate all about yourself, and will not force you to keep your face hidden from yourself.
5. Achieve Personal Goals, Together
The importance of oneself, and personal goals are important and should not be overlooked or neglected by your partner. If you begin to distance yourself from your goals You will soon develop feelings of resentment towards your partner. A happy couple will make sure they do not forget the goals of each other and work together to achieve their goals!
6. End Fights Peacefully, Without Resentment
When two people live together there is a chance that they will be able to have disagreements. It’s normal to have disagreements with your spouse now and then. That’s the way you grow as a couple. An argument that is healthy ends before creating any lasting emotional damage. Be careful with your words when arguing because words can cause more harm than actions.
7. Be Each Other’s Biggest Critics, Privately
We’ve vowed to learn from each other to help each other grow and ensure that we don’t get lost on the path. This means being constructive and critical of each other. You’ll discover many things about yourself from your partner’s eyes. So, be open to new ideas.
8. Celebrate Each Other, Regularly
Find events, dates or even ideas to celebrate. Be grateful for the romantic bond that you have which no one else can reproduce. You should be proud of your relationship, you’ve put in to perfect it. Remember important dates, be aware of these dates, and then celebrate these occasions. Keep cheering each other.
9. Tell The Truth, Period.
I’m sure this is an old phrase, but it’s more relevant today than ever before. It has caused harm to people, their lives, and their relationships. A lie always leads to another and eventually leads to you being trapped in an endless network of deceit. This is a significant amount of negative energy to carry around.
Doing the right thing regardless of the consequences that aren’t to your advantage. I guarantee you that lying about your relationship doesn’t have much value in the scheme of things.
10. Keep Walking Forward, Hand in Hand
The past shouldn’t be kept as a memory. It is possible to learn from it, however, you should not let it affect your present. Every person has a story that is why nobody can start fresh in their lives. It’s not fair to yourself and your loved ones if you choose to cling to the past regardless of the number of regrets you have. Talk with your partner about your feelings, and about your internal turmoil. Be honest about your fears with each other. Be positive, and keep moving forward.
11. Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations
Learn to walk in the shoes of each other. A happy marriage doesn’t have unreasonable expectations. A happy couple is aware of the limitations of each other and will never make each other feel guilty about the limitations. A realistic expectation however will bring joy and happiness.
12. Work Things Out, Giving Up Is Easy
Tough times will occur; we aren’t able to be in control of them. However, what we do control is how we manage those rough moments together. A happy couple understands that the best things in life don’t come with ease, and a healthy relationship is always worthy of fighting. When your soul is set on the right track and you remain going, you will begin opening doors for yourself.
13. Never Let The Spark Go Out, Keep The Romance Alive
A relationship without romance is only toxic. Couples who don’t have a level of love that is healthy begin to distance themselves from each other. Couples who are happy know the importance of romance and are committed to keeping the romance alive. No matter what the status of your relationship, whether married, have children, or have been together for a long time and so on, your love affair should be treasured and revered.
Be thankful, regardless of whether you’re divorced, single or happily married with children or trying to heal from a bad relationship – be thankful for the fact that you’re here. Take advantage of the chance to make a difference and the battle is never over however, at least we fight together and assist each other to grow. We should never let the fire within us go out. We will never stop wishing for an improved tomorrow.
Let’s be grateful, and move forward. Love is among the most basic pleasures of life. If you’ve been through it in any way, you should be thankful for it. Everyone suffers from trauma, pain and heartbreak. We are all in this together, regardless of our differences.
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